What Is Spirit Keeping?

Spirit Keeping is the metaphysical practice of forming a respectful partnership with spiritual entities—such as fae, djinn, dragons, or ancestral spirits—by inviting them to coexist and bond with a human companion, usually through a vessel or energetic link. It is based on trust, consent, and mutual benefit.

What Is the Purpose of Spirit Keeping?

• Personal growth and inner development
• Emotional or spiritual support
• Energetic enhancement (e.g., intuition, creativity, protection)
• Exploration of different realms and spiritual teachings
• Deep companionship and friendship

Is Spirit Keeping Dangerous?

When approached responsibly—no. Dangers arise only when working with unvetted entities, dishonest conjurers, or engaging without respect or ethical grounding. With safe practices and trustworthy conjurers, Spirit Keeping is as safe as forming any close bond—with proper boundaries.

What Is a Conjurer?

A conjurer is someone who facilitates communication and bonding between human keepers and spirits. They locate, verify, and form agreements with spirits who are willing to connect, often binding them to a vessel for ease of communication or directly to the keeper's spirit.

What Is a Vessel?

A vessel is a physical object, such as a ring, pendant, or crystal, that acts as a focal point or link to a spirit’s energy. It’s not a prison—the spirit chooses to remain connected to the vessel and may come and go as they please.

What's the Difference Between Vessel Binding and Spirit Binding?

Vessel Binding:

This is when a spirit is energetically linked to a physical object that you can hold, wear, or place in your space. This object, the "vessel," acts as a direct anchor and focal point for the spirit's energy, making it easier for many keepers to connect with them.

Spirit Binding (or Direct Binding):

This means the spirit is bound directly to your energy, aura, or essence. This means they are always with you, regardless of a physical object. This is often preferred by experienced keepers or those who don't wish to carry a vessel.

At ThePaganShopOnline.com, we also offer remote binding to a vessel you already own. If you have a specific item you wish to use, simply provide us with a clear picture of the object, and our conjurers can perform the binding remotely to link the spirit to your chosen item.

Unless specifically requested otherwise, almost all of our spirit offerings are spirit bound directly to you upon purchase. However, if you prefer a vessel binding and don't have a personal item to use, we can assist! We can help you find a suitable vessel and arrange for it to be shipped to you. For premium vessels such as rings, necklaces, or pendants, there will be an additional charge for the cost of the vessel itself. If you'd prefer your spirit bound to a gemstone, we are happy to provide the gemstone free of charge. In either scenario – whether you choose a premium vessel or a free gemstone – you will be responsible for the shipping and handling charges to get the vessel to you.

What Are the Main "Arts" in Spirit Keeping?

The "arts" refer to energy classifications:

Note: Dark Arts are not inherently evil—just more complex and often misunderstood. Black Arts (BA) spirits, however, are rarely kept ethically and and are generally discouraged due to their challenging nature and potential for negative influence. While we may offer them by request for highly experienced keepers, it is crucial to understand that working with such entities requires significant expertise, strong energetic boundaries, and a complete acceptance of personal responsibility for all interactions and outcomes. We strongly advise against them for beginners and will not be held responsible for misuse or negative experiences stemming from their keeping.

What Are Some Of The Common Types of Spirits Might I Encounter?

What’s the Difference Between a Pre-Conjure and a Custom Conjure?

Pre-Conjure: A spirit has already been vetted and is ready to connect with someone compatible.

Custom Conjure: A conjurer finds a spirit who resonates specifically with you—your energy, path, and needs.

How Do I Communicate With My Spirit?

• Meditation: Calm your mind, invite your spirit, and receive impressions.
• Telepathy: Listen for internal messages or shifts in thought that don't feel like your own.
• Dreamwork: Spirits often contact us in dreams. Keep a journal.
• Divination: Use pendulums, tarot, or runes to ask direct questions.
• Signs & Synchronicities: Music, numbers, scents, or chills can all be forms of communication.

What Are the "Clairs" (Psychic Senses)?

These are your spirit-sensing tools:

How Do I Bond With My Spirit?

• Carry or wear their vessel (if applicable)
• Speak to them daily, even mentally
• Offer incense, candles, flowers, or food
• Create art, write letters, build altars
• Give your spirit a role in your daily life (e.g., "Help me stay calm today")

Time and consistency matter most.

What About Protection and Boundaries?

You should:

• Set house rules (e.g., no contact during sleep, no visible manifestations unless invited)
• Use spiritual protection (wards, salt, protective spirits)
• Cleanse regularly (smoke, sound, light)
• Ground your own energy to avoid overload

Can I Keep More Than One Spirit?

Yes, though it’s best to:

• Bond with each one individually
• Introduce spirits to each other with intention
• Monitor emotional/energetic shifts that may come from overcrowding

Why Don’t I Feel Anything?

Reasons may include:

• Your intuitive gifts are still developing
• The bond is still forming
• The spirit is quiet and subtle
• Overthinking is clouding perception

Be patient and keep practicing. Journaling helps you track subtle signs.

Do Spirits Grow With You?

Yes! Many spirits evolve in relationship to you. They may shift roles (e.g., from protector to teacher), reveal new abilities, or help introduce you to other spirit allies when the time is right.

What About Offerings?

Offerings are gifts, not payments. They might include:

• Candles, incense, crystals
• Poems, music, dancing, prayers
• Acts of kindness
• Energy work or healing done in their honor

Do Spirits Ever Leave?

Rarely, unless:

• They feel their purpose has been fulfilled
• There are major energetic or ethical shifts
• You or the conjurer release them intentionally

It’s not common—but even in departure, it’s usually respectful.

What Are Some Advanced Practices?

• Astral travel to visit your spirit’s realm
• Merging energy fields (with permission)
• Channeling messages from your spirit in writing or speech
• Creating spirit families where multiple spirits work as a unit
• Past-life reconnections with familiar spirits

Final Wisdom: What’s the Key to Spirit Keeping?

Respect, communication, patience, and heart.

This path isn’t about power—it’s about partnership. The more lovingly you show up, the deeper and more rewarding your relationship becomes.